From the Book - First Simon Element hardcover edition.
Care tasks are morally neutral
For all the self-help rejects
Gentle skill building : the five things tidying method
Gentle self-talk : mess has no inherent meaning
Care tasks are functional
Gentle self-talk : find the compassionate observer
Organized is not the same as tidy
Gentle skill building : setting functional priorities
Gentle skill building : laundry
You can't save the rain forest if you're depressed
Gentle skill building : doing the dishes
Caring for your body when you hate it
Gentle self-talk : "I am allowed to be human"
Gentle skill building : changing bedsheets
Rest is a right, not a reward
Division of labor : the rest should be fair
Gentle skill building : bathrooms
Gentle skill building : a system for keeping your car clean
When your body doesn't cooperate
Contributing is morally neutral
Cleaning and parental trauma
Gentle skill building : maintaining a space
My favorite ritual : closing duties
Skill deficit versus support deficit
Outsourcing care tasks is morally neutral
Your weight is morally neutral
You deserve a beautiful Sunday.
